31 Erogenous Zones to Explore Your Lover (and Yourself) (Part 2)

Get ready for this delicious sequel

In our last post, we took a tour of all the erogenous zones in the body, from the head to the fingertips. If you haven’t read it yet, here it is. 

So, without further ado, let’s dive into pleasure. 

 Erogenous zones 12 to 20

12 & 13 Navel and lower stomach

These two areas are particularly arousing because of how sensitive the skin is and given their proximity to the genitals. You can caress them with your fingers or a feather or offer an oil massage to help your partner relax and surrender to pleasure. 

14 Sacrum

This zone requires a subtle touch as it is highly sensitive. It is the very end of the spine, and its nerves are connected to the pelvis. Also, because of its proximity to the anus and the possibility of anal play, touching this area could provoke excitement or some aversion. So, as always, you should pay attention to your partner’s reaction and listen to their feedback. 

Erogenous zones in her

15 Pubic mound

This fleshy area just above the clitoris is rich in nerve endings, which makes it very sensitive. Its proximity to the clitoris and the vagina entrance also creates a lot of anticipation when touched or kissed. Also, just by massaging the pubic mound up and down, you can stimulate the labia and clitoris. 

When you are starting to head South, it is crucial that you take your time, especially with a woman. By doing so, you will build arousal, help her inner muscles moisture, and prepare for penetration, avoiding painful sex and leading to stronger orgasms.  

16 Clitoris

The only organ whose single function is to feel pleasure has over 10,000 nerve endings and is covered by a hood. First, take your time to identify it; you don’t want to confuse it with the urethra (a zone that won’t be interesting for your partner). 

According to OMG Yes, there are at least twelve different techniques for caressing the clit, so take your time to explore, touch gently, ask what feels right, and try changing rhythms, stopping, and starting again to build momentum. Most women’s orgasms occur in the clitoris, though they can also happen in the A-spot, G-spot, cervix, or along the vaginal canal. 

17 Vagina entrance

Stimulating the vagina entrance with your fingers will prepare her for penetration, allowing the body to build moisture and open up slowly, avoiding painful sex. If this moisture building doesn’t happen, consider using some kind of lubricant, either your favorite brand, saliva, or coconut oil. As for how to penetrate for maximum pleasure, that will change case by case, so communication is fundamental. 

18 A-spot

The further you get into the vaginal canal, the more trust, openness, safety, and time is needed for an erotic zone to give everything it has to offer. The A-spot is the lower part of the vaginal canal, in the front face of the vagina, right before the cervix.

So often, women are not even aware of the existence of this erogenous zone. Its sensitivity is developed over time. However, when there is a deep emotional bond, and you take your time (regardless of whether you are penetrating with your penis, fingers, or a sex toy), it can be the source of very intense pleasure. 

19 G-spot

The G-spot is a fleshy area about an inch inside the vaginal entrance that is highly sensitive and capable of causing female ejaculation (which is totally different from semen or urine). Curve your fingers and explore kindly. You’ll identify it for its rougher texture (and, for sure, a change in her reaction). Allow momentum and sensation to build. 

20 Cervix

In the same way it happens with the A-spot, your partner needs to be fully aroused and in a context of utmost trust and connection to enjoy cervical stimulation, given how deeply situated it is in the female body. 

Any deep-penetration position will be good for reaching the cervix, regardless of whether you’re during your penis, a dildo, or fingers. When you find an angle and rhythm that feels right, stay there. Cervical orgasms, though rare, are incredibly potent, getting close to what is known in tantra as full-body orgasms. (Which is an entire topic in itself.)

This is the end of the second part of this series on erogenous zones. Check out our blog for the third and last part, including an in-depth dive into masculine pleasure!